well, the important thing is that you're happy with the beer
also, it should be "a little better" instead of best, but your meaning was definitely understood
I view beer styles as a sort of highway or road. There are definitely boundaries to stay inside of (don't drive on the grass) but there's lots of room within those boundaries to get creative.
styles are really just conventions that we've all agreed to use. give someone an IPA, and they'll expect a certain kind of beer in their head. One IPA might be a little hoppier than another, one might have a bit darker color, but they'll all be relatively in the same "family."
It's kind of like how everyone agrees what a "chair" is and isn't, but when you really start to look at it, everyone has a slightly different idea of the "perfect chair" to them. And don't even get started on the finer details. A chair and a table are very different, but when does a "chair" start becoming a "table"? You can sit on both, eat dinner off of both, but they are very different to us.
But, part of the fun is playing with those expectations of style. a pale stout or a black IPA can really throw the taster for a loop because what they see and what they taste are a little contradictory. anyway, it seems i've gotten a little off topic and philosophical