Out of everything above your cheapest bet is the advise Minbari gave. Go to the drug store and get a bottle of iodine to see if all of the starches have been converted. I just get a teaspoon with wort on it and put one drop of iodine in. If there is starch left, it will be black and will not dissipate at all. If the starch has been converted to sugar it will dissipate quickly without turning black. Cut a potato in half and put one drop of iodine on it, the result is what you don't want when testing your wort. I purchased a mill and was crushing my grain before I started making beer and will add a +1 on needing a good crush. With only about 22 batches under my belt I have just now started using a pH meter, more for documenting than anything else.